TDbAdvGrid - Hide header

I want to use the grid to just look like a check box set with a column for a check box, and a column with a name.

Issues I'm having
1. Can I had the header?  The column 0 seems to want to take the header style and the check box doesn't work unless it is in atleast column 1.

2. Can I make it so columns are not selectable?

3. I want to make sure the control does not allow insertion or deletion. Is that already the case?

Am I right to assume you refer to the VCL TDBAdvGrid and not to our IntraWeb grid?