To stretch the formula in aRow, aCol n times down, you would do something like this:
xls.InsertAndCopyRange(TXlsCellRange.Create(aRow, aCol, aRow, aCol), aRow + 1, aCol, n, TFlxInsertMode.NoneDown);
To stretch it to the right, you would do:
xls.InsertAndCopyRange(TXlsCellRange.Create(aRow, aCol, aRow, aCol), aRow, aCol + 1, n, TFlxInsertMode.NoneRight);
And if you want to do it in both ways, you first strectch it to the right, then stretch the whole row down.
Note: This is for formulas that are already in your file and you need to copy. If you are entering the formulas and don't want to manually modify the text so it reads A3, A4... etc, then the you might use R1C1 notation: