This is probably a general Windows thing, but maybe you've come up with a solution, at least for your TAdvGlowButton.
I have a TAdvGlowButton as part of a TAdvDockPanel inseide of a TAdvDockPanel. On a tablet only, if I tap on the button it stays in its hover-over color. I tried to do a SetFocus in code to another control, but of course that does not help. I have to physically touch another control to get the color to go back to the normal color, which is expected.
Is there a possible trick to forcing the button color back to normal via code on a tablet? This works fine with a mouse of course because it knows when the mouse is no longer hovering over the button and as such the color goes back to normal, but on a tablet there is no hover when using your fingers.